I was having a discussion with one of my American English teacher friends about men recently. We discussed Asian men in particular. Said friend had spent a year a couple years ago teaching in Korea and then went home for awhile before coming back to Korea to teach for a second time about 7 months ago. I expressed to her that I wasn't particularly attracted to Asian men and expressed that my year teaching English in Korea was going to be one of self-reflection, rather than focused on dating.
"I've just never been attracted to Asian men," I said unapologetically.
I just find them very effiminate and weak. I'm sorry, but is how I feel! It's hard to go from the MEN of Montana to lithe, skinny she-boys.
I have a few rules when I'm dating, however that list is getting shorter, but the ones that I stand by are: they have to weigh more than me and they have to be taller than me. I don't think I'm asking too much and perhaps it's slightly shallow, but whatever this is my fantasy, damnit.
My friend retorted: "You'll be changing your tune after spending six months here."
She dated a Korean man when she lived in Korea the first time and she said he had "a beautiful body, very feminine and pretty," she said with a chuckle.
She admitted she had never been attracted to Asian men either, but the guy had a really nice car and would take her to various points of interest throughout Korea. Gawd! I'll take the bus, thankyouverymuch.
Ummm, yeah. Not exactly what I'm looking for. Someone who looks better in a bikini than me is not someone I'm interested in dating.
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